I made a decision.
I decided I missed my babies too much. But not enough that I wanted to leave my job, especially with how beneficial daycare has been for both children. I decided to approach my boss about working 4 days instead of 5.
In my head I examined every angle. I knew I had to choose between asking for Mondays or Fridays because my boss doesn't work Tues, Wed or Thurs most weeks and he would need to be there if I was not because the relief pharmacists, although wonderful, don't do cash or reports, or filing, or ordering, or recieving, or etc, etc, etc.
After examining all the angles, I decided to ask for Fridays due to many reasons but mostly because Friday's are very slow right now and on Mondays we generally get a big order and its when I run all the weekly reports and catch up on Filing and paperwork.
The timing couldn't have been better. He was telling me about the district meeting he had attended and showing me some paperwork. We read a section about changing employee hours to reflect business volume - perfect! I gave my request with a couple of back-up reasons for choosing that day and he agreed immediately! I agreed to work any Friday's he needed if he was going to be away as long as he requested it well in advance so I could find care for the kiddos. I am optomistic that the daycare may be able to take them on random Fridays and if not, I can ask Shaun's dad or have my parents up to visit and care for them, or ask a friend who does home daycare (Kelly if you're reading this I hope you'd agree!).
I am glad I will have a special P&K day! I was feeling like I wasn't getting to spend much time with them so I hope this will help.